I cannot stand that my in laws keep bringing up BM's family CONSTANTLY in MY house. On a holiday I am hosting, nonetheless.
I leave the room, table, or whatever and no one notices. If it were my SDs, ok, but it is not. There is no reason for the bringing up either. I hate it. Then they wonder why I don't hang out so much. The sad thing is, I really love my in laws but, the pain is so bad sometimes. It does get better though with time, though. I think of the saying above.
I think I will bring up all of my successful ex boyfriends at next dinner. Or perhaps my past sex life because DH is bonded to BM by sex; theoretically, right?
OMG! I never knew there was anyone that goes through the same crap as me!
ReplyDeleteI always think "next dinner or whatever, I will start to talk about my ex's and my past sex life"! It's BS what I have to go through sometimes. I think we have a lot in common! I found you blog by google searching "childless stepmoms" because that is my situation right now.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of women who go through this (childless or not!).
ReplyDeleteI hope reading my blog will help you and make you feel less isolated.
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There are many of us out there that really do go through the same things and only those of us going through it can understand!
There are special seats for CSMs in heaven!
It seems like THEY are not over it. Have you discussed it with them NOT to talk about her? It's just very bad energy; all the negativity.
ReplyDeleteoh and thank you for reading!
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